关于爱的英语作文大学 第1篇

On campus, lovers can be found here and there. They are very intimate with each other sometimes. Some people think too much intimacy has a bad influence.

It takes lovers too much time and energy. Then how about their studies? Furthermore, their intimacy can aisc distract their own as well as other students‘ attention from study. Campus should be a place for study and should maintain an atmosphere of learning. On the other hand, other people believe it is OK. Pursuing love is all right to students on campus and intimacy is a natural expression of love. Some scholars of law hold that friendships and appropriate intimacy are an important pard of student development. A sociologist says, _Students‘ right to self-expression should be respected._ In my opinion, what all people should do is just leave it as it is. University students are adults, and they can handle their own affairs well enough.

However, they have to admit that school is a place where people receive an education and their main task is to study. Therefore, students are expected to behave themselves in proper ways.

关于爱的英语作文大学 第2篇

步入大学，许多同学都步入了大学恋爱这一人生事业当中。在大学校园里，常常能见到一对对“有情人”手拉着手，肩并着肩，亲密无间地走在宽阔的校道上，大学恋爱已成为大学校园里一道靓丽的风景线。而作为大学生的我们，是应该选择“一切从恋爱开始”呢，还是认为“天涯何处无芳草，何必非要现在找”，这就取决于我们对爱情的态度以及自身的恋爱观。

大学恋爱可遇而不可求。爱情是个奇怪的东西，你有意去寻找它时，它偏不出现，而你又有可能在无意中收获了美好的爱情。有一句话说得好：“是你的就是你的，不是你的强求也没用。”随着大学生心理和生理上的逐渐成熟，对爱情的渴望也渐渐强烈，这就使得有些大学生“饥不择食”，不管对方是否和自己志趣相同，情投意合，而只凭双方初次见面或经过几次接触之后，以掩耳不及迅雷之势迅速地确立了恋爱关系。这种由于一时冲动而获得的爱情常常是“无疾而终”，因为开始时没有深入地了解对方，而将来随着对对方了解的深入，双方的缺点会越来越多地暴露出来，从而使双方的矛盾也不断加深，最终导致感情的破裂。而大学生往往心理承受能力较弱，面对感情挫折时，有些大学生会自暴自弃，从此无心向学，更有甚者会做出极端行为来伤害对方。所以，心急吃不了热豆腐，我们并不用刻意地去追求大学的爱情，应当一切随缘，如果爱情真的会来，你躲也躲不掉！但是大学恋爱中总会遇到一些问题。如何解决就成了一大难题。接下来就来好好分析一下。

1、不能误把友谊当爱情。有些同学在与异性的交往中，不能准确区分友谊与爱情两种性质不同的感情体验，给双方平添许多烦恼。所以我们应该具有迎接爱的能力。如果一个人心中有了爱就要敢于用正确的方式表达；如果面对别人的示爱时要能够取舍，并及时做出接受或拒绝的选择。能够承受求爱拒绝或拒绝求爱的心理困扰。其次还应该具有拒绝爱的能力。对于自己不愿意接受或认为不值得接受的爱情应有勇气拒绝。拒绝时应注意两点：

（1）如果不希望爱情到来，拒绝的语气要果断坚决，容不得半点优柔寡断，否则对对方造成的将是更大的伤害。

（2）要掌握恰当的方式。要掌握说话的方式和度。虽然每个人都有拒绝爱的**，但是也要做到对别人起码的尊重。

2、不能错置爱情的地位。把爱情放在人生最高的地位，奉行爱情至上**，沉涸于感情缠绵之中。这样的恋爱观，很容易导致对人生目标的误解，这对需要将主要精力用于学**的大学生来说危害尤大，因整天卿卿我我而耽误学习、虚掷光阴的例子在大学校园中并不鲜见，这样的恋爱态度也不利于正确对待和处理恋爱过程中出现的矛盾与挫折，常常会使一些同学在求爱不成或失恋之后，情绪和行为失控，甚至产生悲观厌世情绪，导致严重的后果。

3、不能片面地或功利化地对待恋爱。无论是在自己心中勾画出一个脱离现实的恋爱偶像，还是片面追求外在形象，或者只看重经济条件，或者仅仅把恋爱看成是摆脱孤独寂寞的方式，都无法产生真挚的感情，也得不到真正的爱情。有些大学生的恋爱动机不是出于爱情本身，而是为了弥补内心的空虚、孤独或随大流有从众心理。这类学生在择偶时很少把恋爱行为与婚姻结合起来考虑，缺乏责任感。还有极少数的学生为了显示自己的魅力，同时和几位异性同学交往、_，搞多角恋爱，甚至和谁都不确定恋爱关系。不道德的多角恋爱易引起纷争、不幸和灾难，也极易发生冲突，酿造悲剧，最终是对所有当事人都产生不良后果。所以大学生在恋爱的时候应该对自己对他人负责任。同时也应该端正自己的恋爱动机。

4、不能只重过程不顾后果。当代大学生注重的是恋爱过程本身，至于恋爱的结果已经不太在意。注重恋爱过程，有利于双方相互了解、加深认识，也有利于培养感情、增加心理相容度，同时也反映出大学生不愿落入俗套，着意追求爱的真谛。但是，如果“不在乎天长地久，只在乎曾经拥有”，这种做法也不可取。一些大学生把恋爱当作一种感情体验，及时行乐，借以寻求刺激，满足精神享受，一些大学生是为了充实课余生活，**寂寞，填补空虚，把恋爱当作一种消遣文化。只重恋爱过程，轻视恋爱结果，实质上是只强调爱的**，而否认爱的责任。爱情不是自私地占有对方的感情，而是自觉自愿地为所挚爱的人付出感情、担当责任。那些抱着对大学恋爱只是玩玩而已的心态去尝试的做法是不可取的。如果“不在乎天长地久，只在乎曾经拥有”，把爱情当成游戏，既会伤害对方，也会伤及自己。要遵循恋爱中的道德规范，避免婚前性行为。这不论是对自己还是对别人都是一种负责任的表现。

5、恋爱与学习的关系。学习是大学生的主要任务，每个学生应把爱情作为奋发学习的动力，同时还应把是否有利于促进学习作为衡量这份爱情价值的一个重要的、特殊的标准。

首先应以学业为主。父母用辛辛苦苦赚的血汗钱供我们上大学哪怕不是为了自己面就算是为了父母也要先把书读好。在校期间大部分时间都应用在学**及时完成作业双方优势互补互相学习互恋人之间要经常督促对方是否完成这段时间内的学习计划相讨论恋人之间在一起久了也很少会感到疲惫。

生涯中好的成绩无疑是最美味的面包因此可**提高学习的效率保证成绩平稳中有进步。在学生有了面包的爱情将会更加的诱人也会更加持久。总之，大学生应该把事业放在首位，摆正爱情与事业的关系，不能把宝贵的时间都用于谈情说爱而放松了学习。因为学业是大学生价值感的主要支柱。

6、恋爱与关心集体的关系。恋爱中的双方不应把自己禁锢在两个人的世界中。脱离集体，疏远同学，会妨碍自身的全面发展与进步。大学生迟早要踏入社会，那么与人交际的是很有必要的。倘若因为禁锢在了两个人的世界里面而导致自己缺乏社交经验和能力，那对于自己的发展是很不利的。

7、发展健康的恋爱行为：

（1）恋爱言谈要文雅，讲究语言美，行为大方。交谈中要诚恳坦率自然，不要为了显示自己而装腔作势，矫揉造作；不能出言不逊，污言秽语，举止粗鲁；相互了解，不要无休止地盘问对方，使对方自尊心受损。

（2）亲昵动作要高雅，避免粗俗化。高雅的亲昵动作发挥爱情的愉悦感和心理效应，而粗俗的亲昵动作往往引起情感分离的消极心理效果，有损于爱情的纯洁与尊严，有损于大学生的形象，同时对旁人也是一种不良的心理刺激。

（3）善于**感情，理智行事。一方面要注意克制和调节，另一方面要注意转移和升华，参加各种文娱活动，与恋人多谈谈学习和工作，把恋爱行为限制在社会规范内，不致越轨，要使爱情沿着健康的道路发展。

8、大学的爱情也不可能****。如果双方分手，我们也应该知道该如何处理。不能因为感情的破裂而造成更大的伤害。所以我们该怎么处理恋爱心理问题呢？越是美好的东西失去之后伤害越大，失恋也是如此。当我们将全身心的放入到一个身上之后，那个人却反而转身离开，所有的依靠一下都没了。通过我自己的亲身经历那种给人的感觉就好像全世界只剩下自己一个人，一般毫无希望可言。并给我们造成一系列消极心理愤恨、悲伤、失落、孤独、虚无、绝望充斥着我们的大脑，导致了我们的大学生活在阴影中度过。失恋后应当学会自我调节，而不是一味的自暴自弃。我们要能够明白爱情固然重要，但并不是生活的全部，爱情只是生活中点缀的一部分。有爱情生活可以更完美，但没有了爱情并不**生活就没有了色彩。我们要能够知道我们的身边还有一群对自己不离不弃的朋友。他们会在为站在爱情巅峰的我们鼓励**，会为跌在爱情低谷的我们伸出援手。要学会思维转移，把失恋的痛苦升华为学习中奋发向上的一种动力。反思失恋的原因也许有时候的我们会发现这样的爱情并不值得留恋。正所谓天涯何处无芳草，xxx前路无知己。俗话说不必为了一棵树而放弃了整个森林。

因此为了我们自身美好的大学生活寻找到甜蜜的大学爱情，我们需要树立正确的大学恋爱观，积极面对爱情。不能正盲目恋爱导致失恋后无法正确处理。不要由于从众才去恋爱，不要只为了恋爱而去谈恋爱也不要只为了简单的生理需求或者心理需求而去恋爱。恋爱中的两个人在一起就要一起努力，共同向上。由于志同道合产生的爱情可以帮助我们正确处理爱情和学业之间的关系。恋爱要感情专一，恋爱过程中要相互理解、信任和宽容，相互尊重。要追求高尚的爱情，摒弃庸俗的爱情。在体验美好爱情的同时也应该不断充实自己才能在今后社会中更好的生存、发展。

任何事物都有其正反两面，恋爱能带来前所未有的感情体验，也会带来毁灭人生的挫折。为了明天的美好，请大家正确对待恋爱问题。

关于爱的英语作文大学 第3篇

大学生恋爱 College Students to fall in love

College students have more freedom thanbefore and they also grow more and more mature in physical and mental. So it isnatural that they would like to fall in love with someone. As a result, campuslove becomes popular in university. For this phenomenon, people opinions vary. In my opinion, I don’t agree with that phenomenon.

跟以前相比，大学生拥有更多的**，而且在身心上他们也在慢慢地变得越来越成熟。所以他们想谈恋爱是很自然的。结果校园恋爱在大学中就变得很普遍。对于这一现象，人们众说纷纭。在我看来，我是持反对意见的。

First of all, falling in love with others cost a lot of money. When two people have that kind of relationship, they will go out with each other often. When they are going out, they have to spend more the dating, the boy may try his best to buy things to make the girl happy. While the girl may start to make up or buy more beautiful clothes to make herself look better. All these need money. However, university students are still students. They have no income. Their money is from their parents. Falling in love with someone will increase the burden of their family and themselves.

首先，恋爱需要花费很多钱。当两个人是那种关系的时候，他们就会经常一起出去。出去的时候就要花比较多的钱。约会中，男孩子会尽自己最大的努力去买东西给女孩让她开心。而女孩也会开始化妆或者买一些漂亮的衣服来让自己看起来更美丽。这些行为都是需要钱的。然而，大学生仍然还是学生。他们没有收入。他们的钱是父母给的。恋爱会增加家庭和自己的负担。

In addition, dating will distract students’attention from study. Although college students are growing more and more mature, they are still teenagers having little life experience. Their self-discipline always is not good. If they can’t deal with the relation between study and dating properly, their study always will be given up by themselves. Eventhey won’t give up their study, but it is surely influenced.

此外，约会也会分散学生在学**的***。虽然大学生越来越成熟了，但是他们仍然是没有什么生活经验的青少年。他们的自我约束能力并不是那么好。如果他们不能处理好学习与恋爱之间的关系，他们终究会放弃自己的学习。就算他们不会放弃自己的学业，但肯定会受影响的。

In general, dating in campus is bad for the development of university students. For the sake of their life and study, they should not start a relation while they are still in campus.

总的来说，校园恋爱不利于大学生的发展。看在生活和学习的份上，他们不应该在学校的时候就开始谈恋爱。

关于爱的英语作文大学 第4篇

As it is known, when we are in high school, we all have a constant goal that is to get the entrance to college, and hard work is out of question for the following. So we gain the notice to college finally which we often dream of in the nights, which proves a proverb that the god doesn’t live up to someone who spends time and efforts, please memorize the sentence for good.

Of course one day we went to college in August or September happily and proudly, but at the same time something happened that it made your heart pounding fiercely next, by the way, that is love for many college students. And then they mithe directions and their selves as well for their lives. Next I am to exprethat I am neutral for falling in love in college, however I have some ideas to illustrate of my own.

Firstly, if you are passers-by, I think we will find a lot about several couples of boyfriends and girlfriends under the dorms or dim corners or in the classes without anybody for close postures, as youngsters, it is normal without asking cause about that.

Secondly, even worth mentioning is that many young boys and girls couldn’t attend classes and courses instead of traveling to some sceneries and sight places or doing other things only to turn out them loved each other temporarily./

Thirdly, especially to most of freshmen, please don’t be influenced by the phenomenon that a number of students who finds anther half called by them selves proudly, because I think persons are different from each other, different characters, backgrounds and aims.

But there is one point to obey if you actually want to have an attempt the feeling for love at first sight: it is , whenever you and I am, the learning and the work is the most principle rather than love is the first and work second, for we aren’t children and teenagers anymore, in the future society needs a comprehensive qualifications, profound and extensive knowledge persons, meanwhile in college you are in the state of half foot to society which time is a most important proceto exercise and experience before stepping to complicated and complex society, and therefore we are supposed to spend much time in learning instead.

关于爱的英语作文大学 第5篇

As is known to all, dating is popular with college students. One opinion clarify that it is reasonable, but the other keep the opposite opinion. In my opinion, dating is acceptable in suitable case.

In colleges, the students are all adults. So, they have rights to built a romantic relationship in our country. College students have been strongly committed to studying hardly towards a successful carrer and therefore hesitant to date with their different sex or not. If the dating is supportive to their studies, it should be encouraged. In that case, they will do their best to finish the all aspects of their goals for the one they love, because they don’t want see that the other involved into frustration and disappointment. Of course, if the dating is only the burden, we should refuse to accept. When the dating take you up the most time and therefore you have no time to study, communication with your friends, take part in colorful activities and do other things, I think you will be deeply depraved and never gains during your college life.

In conclusion, the influence of dating between college students is versatile. Keep your eyes open between right and wrong, let’s make ourselves to be the masters of the future.